Lalo Delgado |
Institutional Alternatives
“These palomas like I, belong here in
the barrio?”
by Abelardo B. Delgado
I found our city to be lacking in terms
of enough alternatives. The same story of long-waited lists was told
by two manager of the two high-rise housing units. I was happy to
learn that some two such high-rise units are scheduled to be erected
in South El Paso, a barrio which is almost 100 percent Chicano.
This barrio is perhaps one of the
reasons I didn't find anymore Chicanos in the places I visited. Let
me explain.
The barrio is near Juarez, Mexico and
is near downtown and for people like our abuelitos who lack
transportation the place is ideal. It also has one of the oldest
churches, Sagrado Corazon.
Old people congregate themselves in
tenement houses where rent is cheap and they can have their plantas
and their canarios. In that same barrio there is a “casa de los
ancianos” for women. I found there some twenty women, nineteen of
them Chicanas and one Anglo.
This place has been highly successful
and evolved form a place similar to the tenements (presidios) where
there was cooking and washing and eating done in each unit to what no
is a well-planned community.
The manager spoke to me at length
about each individual, and I could sense a sort of pride and joy in
her work. She told me of the problems of handling the money for some
whose faculties lack to do it themselves, and of a Senora Luz who
used to feed the pigeons and who exclaimed at the first attempt to
stop her from doing that – “These palomas like I, belong here in
the barrio?” – she continues to pay young kids to feed them,
since she cannot do it inside the home now. She pointed to Dona Lola
watering two rusty cans with plants and said, – “See those
plants...if I were to take them from her not only would the plants
die, but so would she.”
There are actually two alternatives
for the aged Chicano, or otherwise, a nursing home or a housing
authority unit. In our city, which I venture to predict is not much
different from others, the choices are rather limited.
Cedar Grove Nursing Home, somewhat for
from the city on Alameda Avenue, was recently closed down for failure
to meet standards. It was run by an Anglo couple who proudly spoke of
their dedication to their work but realized economically it was not
feasible to upgrade the facility. Four Seasons Nursing Center, R.N.
Nursing and Convalescent Home, Sunset Haven, Valley Community Home
are in operation as far as a place for the viejitos needing medical
attention or to recuperate, but even all of them covered only some
one-thousand beds are available.
It is obvious that the necessity for
such institutions so overwhelmingly evident will pry the necessary
funds loose to build a more adequate series of such nursing homes as
well as housing units for those still able to function pretty
independently. What worries me is if such institutions in an effort
to answer the call efficiently do not lose the human value which
needs be instituted in the very blue prints. More so will those
differences that I speak about be considered. Take the simple task of
having a set of tenederos erected. Tendederos are clotheslines, and
most of our viejitas prefer the good El Paso sun to dry their clothes
rather than the gas dryer. Because I fear the human and cultural
aspect will be omitted, I would like to offer some suggestions based,
again, on what I have seen this last month in which I have
infiltrated “el mundo de nuestros viejitos.”
Suggestions
All staff should hold sensitivity
training sessions so that these cultural differences involving
particularly Blacks, Chicanos, or Indians can be acknowledged. By now
in each community there are enough articulate and knowledgeable
members of these communities who could conduct them.
Most of the places I visited were
extremely well-cleaned and spotless, ye in all of this spic and span
environment, I felt a very dehumanistic and artificial air prevailed.
I could perhaps suggest a big of home
grime to be permitted if it means lifting up the spirit of something
to get he antiseptic mood out of nursing homes. It was depressing for
me to be in some of these places only a couple of hours, how much
more so for the “Jefitos” and Abuelitos (parents and
grandparents) who stay there two or three years.
One ex-male nurse and now administrator
is one of the nursing homes hit real hard on instilling the feeling
of usefulness and worth by doing what he claimed he did with el Senor
Pablo Garcia. Senor Garcia had come there not able to even brush his
own teeth and feed himself. In a month or so he was doing both tasks
quite well; he was babied too much by his own family and by the
previous home. What appears to be cruelty may very well be the best
remedy, as I presume Senor Garcia missed a meal or two before he got
the message he could do much on his own.
There's nothing better than
involvement, and I believe from what I saw that the old are sheltered
from present issues too much. Locally, again, there's a group of
oldsters who started a store and can be heard to shout in some
meetings, Viejito Power.
I cannot find strong enough language to
make the following recommendation and that one is to our Chicano
community. We must continue to care for our papas y abuelitos whether
it is in our own home or in a nursing home, or wherever, by visiting
them and let the “nietos” (grandchildren) be with them. Some of
the youngsters today actually fear viejitos because they have not
been exposed to them. Do not just dump and forget them as discards.
We can very well recycle viejitos into a meaningful and well-earned
rest and maximum productivity with merely being concerned with them
rather than for them.